I dated a Woman briefly, but there was no connection. After 5 years of being single I got back on the dating scene this year. I've had long periods of time not dating at all, eventually going back to sleeping with/dating Men.
I've buried my head in the sand for many years.
I think it's fear of rejection/humiliation and of the unknown. I've had fantasies about being with Women but for many reasons, have never had the courage to pursue Women. It's never felt quite right being with Men. I've always identified as gay but, at 28 I had the first idea that that might not have been the case.